KimJi-Young: Born 1982. A subtle film with a strong message on gender inequality, it portrays middle-class Korean families in a classic fashion, and values marriage and family. K im Ji-YoungFind Los Angeles Events Categories Start Date End Date Neighborhood Neighborhoods Find Events Museums & Galleries Drop-In Tours Stories of PRIDE Find Events Arts & Theatre Last Summer at Bluefish Cove Find Events Arts & Family Jefferson Park Zine Fest Find Events Arts & Theatre Palmares Find Events Arts & Theatre Odyssey Race and Racism Find Events Arts & Theatre Waking Up to All of Me Find Events Film, TV & Radio The Watermelon Woman Find Events Arts & Theatre Last Summer at Bluefish Cove Find Events Cultural Heritage TEAM TAIKO JAPANESE DRUM LESSONS Find Events Arts & Theatre Last Summer at Bluefish Cove Find Events Arts & Theatre The Tempest Find Events Arts & Theatre Jackie at Hollywood Fringe Find Events Arts & Theatre Last Summer at Bluefish Cove Find Events Arts & Theatre The Tempest Find Events Arts & Theatre Last Summer at Bluefish Cove Find Events Arts & Theatre The Tempest Find Events Arts & Theatre Last Summer at Bluefish Cove Find Events Arts & Theatre The Tempest Find Events Arts & Theatre Last Summer at Bluefish Cove Find Events Arts & Theatre The Tempest Allthe same "KIM Jiyoung: Born 1982" is beautiful introspective filmmaking- not a mystery so much as lived experience. Review by William Schwartz _____ "KIM Jiyoung: Born 1982" is directed by Kim Do-young, and features Jung Yu-mi, Gong Yoo, Kim Mi-kyung, Gong Min-jung, Park Sung-yeon, Lee Bong-ryeon. Release date in Korea: 2019/10/23.
9/10 Bravo for the actor and actress for a tremendous storyline movie This storyline is really tremendous and its although not the one of the top best of my favourites but it indeed already caught my attention of a well made movie from the director, acting team and well written story. This definitely deserve to be on one of the top movies in Korea between 2019 and 2020. This story also touches the real society in Korea and a lot of advance countries too share the same problems. From my knowledge, a lot of countries are far worse on these problems. Gender discrimination is so huge and either worse than or comparable to racism or religion differences. This movie reminds us man to be more mature and to accept those females challenges. As a male, I admit that I always see that males use sex differences to avoid competition with the females. Males can be jealous, anxious and desperate as the females because we are all humans too. 13 out of 13 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 9/10 Speak for girls. It is said that after the publication of the novel and the release of the film, the majority of south Korean men still launched an endless online abuse and boycott, so it is conceivable that in Asia, the status of women is so low that even though some people have awakened, most people still feel accustomed to rights are not just a "METOO" movement. They are needed in every aspect of society, from the home to the hope everyone, women can speak for themselves, and men can speak for women, as a talk show host urged on the program if you keep silent and think it's not your business, then you are an accomplice. 35 out of 37 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 10/10 Me2 This novel cause anger which most of the people try to stop the movie showing and curses the actress because of ego pride. It's contain the real life of what woman is facing who the man refusing to admit or don't talk about it. Gender discrimination happen every where but it is very serious in Asia because of last time ancestors stupidity teaching. It's hidden message contain about gender equality is everywhere if u observe well. Great performance by all the actors especially the mother acting is touching when.... 22 out of 24 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 9/10 You gotta watch it I like this movie. Cinematic wise, it was awesome. Beautifully captured. Story wise, this was one hidden-gem just like The Parasite Movie another must-watch Korean Movie.I think the story depicted on how 'woman' perceived in the Korean society/ Asian culture. It highlights several social issues for woman career, dream, self-dependent, social/peer pressure, social expectation of 'what a good wife/good woman should be/act by presenting us the life of Kim Ji-Young, young wife lived with her little daughter and the story,the characters in it overcame the issues in quite realistic way that maybe some of us can relate to our actual life. After watching it, I feel empowered and satisfied. 25 out of 28 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 8/10 An optimistic yet realistic story The movie was beautiful. although it was a bit slow-paced, there were a lot of touching moments. throughout the movie you'll find yourself rooting for kim ji-young as she struggles to find herself in the midst of criticisms from her mother in-law. the movie was hopeful, but also had a realistic ending. as a woman myself, i felt very inspired after watching this. 20 out of 22 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 8/10 A decent movie A realistic movie drawing attention to full time mothers' psychological and lifestyle changes after getting married and giving birth in Asian countries. A touching story with great actors, worth watching. 16 out of 20 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 9/10 Must watch Korean Movie It is true that the pace of the movie is slow with the very very light topic. However it is really happening arround us. The gender discrimination, pressure from parents, family and family in law versus our needs, dreams and today's life. As light as the topic, this kind of issue rarely being disccuss on public, then the person who have the problem need to find out by them self without support from the inner circle or the worse they don't even know it Every single of us having our own trouble, and there's no one else can stepping our shoes tho? Then why spending energy go hurt others? 19 out of 22 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 8/10 Motherhood is it an easy feat? 'Kim Ji-Young, Born 1982' is based on a fiction novel by Cho Nam-joo that was published in October 2016. Cho only took two months to write the novel as the character's life relates to her own life. She mentioned that "Kim Ji-young's life isn't much different from the one I have lived. That's why I was able to write so quickly without much preparation."The novel is a critique of the patriarchal system that is still very much alive in South Korea's women's lives that depicts what happens from childhood to adulthood after marriage. The lead actor Gong Yoo and actress Jung Yu-mi were brilliant in the film. Even from the opening scene, we can already sense the tension in this film. This film would like to also show how being a stay-at-home mother is never an easy feat. Everyone will have a desire to accomplish things outside private life, however, this is easier for men than it is for women. A secret that is often kept secret is the fact that most women go through depression while trying to be a good mother. This film explored that taboo subject. 13 out of 16 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 8/10 for everyone in the world Warning Spoilers "Jin Zhiying Born in 1982" describes a Korean woman born in 1982, who lived to speak in the tone of her mother and school sister in 2019, bringing out the whole story. And Jin Zhiying is the name of the Korean vegetable market, so it also has the meaning for all "Jin Zhiying". I am interested in this movie because I read this book before the movie was released, but because the chronology in the book is interspersed, and not only the heroine Kim Ji-young, but also the story of her mother, plus I am intermittently Reading this book, it is easy to forget the details or the plot in front, so I didn't understand the chronology of the book very well at the time. After watching the video, I did clarify a lot of things that I didn't understand, although the movie has some plot adaptations. The female's name became someone's wife and the child's mother. This is the plot that I most impressed when I was reading a novel. I don't know when Jin Zhiying's name became Mrs. Zheng and Mother Yaying. Every night at 8 o'clock in the evening, all the people waiting for the garbage truck under my building are women, of course there are also men, but the ratio is about eight to two, and women are called Mrs. Wang, Mrs. Chen..., so I am right This part is quite impressive. Also, when Zhiying was pregnant, Dae-hyun said to her, "Giving birth to a child will not change anything." Later, when Dae-hyun saw that Ji-young was tired, he said to Ji-young, "I will help you with housework" and "Mom". The clips are the clips in this movie that I was surprised and didn't believe ?. But one of the scenes that impressed me the most was the part where Jiyoung's face was radiant when he got better at the end. His skin changed from the original wrinkle to luminous, and his eyes became piercing and piercing. The angle of light just made Jiyoung. Standing in the bright place of the bed curtain, with the circle in slightly from the bottom up, I think this is probably the most successful scene of this movie. There is no gorgeous mirroring and editing in the movie, and even the soundtrack has only one song, but this can make it closer to our daily life without losing the standard of the movie. The two protagonists always mentioned the word ordinary when they were interviewed. I hope this movie can give people comfort and reflect on family, parents... and other issues that are usually not taken into the plots presented in this movie are all possible and happening, and they are all examples of what happened to my mother or my side, so I don't think the movie is too deliberately arranged, but Koreans are required to receive and Acknowledging that this is a big challenge for them related to nationality, and that the film vilifies men. And South Korea's patriarchal society, coupled with deteriorating feminists and some misogynistic people, made Zheng Youmei and Kong Liu no less opposed than supporting voices when the news of the movie came out. Social software also used a lot of offensiveness. watching the movie, I thought about whether this is considered a South Korean film to be transformed into justice ? 5 out of 5 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 9/10 A novel driven movie discuss about how bias can grow among society The movie itself had widely discussed in Korea. And yet even in other Asian countries may sense similar feelings as most agricultural economy driven countries treat differently boys to girls. Even raised as kids, we sense the difference. Moms never come to dinning board and always buried in preparation of breakfast, lunch, dinner and tones of dishes. The movie generate discussion around women's right and how bias grown among society. Even today, our elder generation may still press by their old thoughts against young ones. Not only work, raising kids, mental health will you find in the movie but also how those small events trigger deep sorrow and emptiness in a mom. Worth watching and discuss how to treat people around differently without unconscious bias. 8 out of 9 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 10/10 Love the ending Just fall in love with this movie. I really like gong yoo role here, eventho Im not married but I wish I can be like gong yoo character in the future. Bestttt 6 out of 7 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 6/10 The lot of a wife and mother Some issues here are quite novel for a movie. Not an easy movie to watch but illuminating. She has a beautiful daughter and a nice husband. So why is she depressed? Her career was given up for that. Her mother in law expects her to just cook and look after the baby. Her husband is supportive and so is her mother. She even has a job offer to return to work. But she is depressed. Not terrible life threatening problems but real issues that every woman faces after having a child. Not sure about the conclusion. Wish things had been more definitive. 6 out of 23 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 8/10 Cinema Omnivore - Kim Ji-young Born 1982 2019 "Kim's directorial guideline is in accord with a recognizable day-to-day urban view without much specificity - occasionally warm light shots through and soft-focus pleasantness takes hold, and munificently permits actors to perform for all they are worth. Among which, Jung Yu-mi fully lives up to or even surpasses one's expectation as Ji-young, turbulence flows and ebbs underneath her docile comportment with such exquisite potency. Holding Ji-young's dignity intact, Jung registers chronic sufferance with piercing empathy and devastating impact, her excellence reaches its crashing crescendo during the key sequences with cracking screen partners like Gong Yoo, who voluntarily plays the second banana with beguiling benevolence, and Kim Mi-kyung, who plays Ji-young's hardworking mother and whose outpourings are roundly soul-shattering."read my full review on my blog Cinema Omnivore, thanks. 0 out of 2 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 10/10 Wholesome & Meaningful This was such a wholesome and meaningful movie. I loved how this movie covered topics like gender roles, gender inequality, and things that women struggle with in our current society. This film was able to cover all those topics accurately, but not in an aggressive way. The acting was phenomenal too, I cried so much in one of the scenes because the acting made the scene much more realistic and believable. I loved the wholesome moments as well as it reminded me of family and friendships. More films like this would be great to spread awareness one situations like this, just like how this movie so perfectly did. 0 out of 0 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink 5/10 Meh Warning Spoilers Slow paced movie with no intense climax. Just a regular psychological case with no deep approach. Nothing climax,the storyline is easy to guess.. The pace becomes much much faster at the end with no further detail stories and of course, no surprise. 11 out of 55 found this helpful. Was this review helpful? Sign in to vote. Permalink
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âWhat do you want from us? The dumb girls are too dumb, the smart girls are too smart, and the average girls are too unexceptional?â These are lines in Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 by Cho Nam-joo, the Korean novel hailed by The Guardian as a âSouth Korean MeToo bestseller.â With the recent release of the English translation by Jamie Chang, the groundbreaking feminist novel is now available to readers who seek to understand how society has designed the struggles of the modern Korean woman. The book focuses on the silent and subtle injustices experienced by a woman named Kim Jiyoung, whose name is implied to represent the Korean âEverywoman.â Choâs narrative tracks the progression from childhood to adulthood, with inequality as the central aspect of Jiyoungâs life. These stories, which read more like third-person anecdotes, are interspersed with commentary and statistics that problematize how gender inequality manifests in South Korea. To that effect, Choâs reportage emphasizes the broader contexts of sexist practices and institutions, while Jiyoung herself serves as the individual microcosm where daily sexism becomes apparent. The almost âhybridâ nature of the book is instrumental in illustrating the dynamics of womanhood. It is here that Kim Jiyoung evolves beyond a specific literary character and is given greater depth as the representation for a societal issue. As a child, Jiyoung is forced to endure a classmateâs daily harassment under the justification of âboys will be boys.â As a young adult, she cannot get hired because she is a woman; when she does get a job, she cannot get promoted. When she is married, she is forced to sacrifice her job to be a wife, which is implied to be the âonlyâ job that she needs. When she is pregnant, she is told she is entitled for arriving to work late. When she becomes a housewife, her domestic labor is demeaned. At its core, Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 expresses a womanâs struggles with what has become mundane and mediocre, products of a society that relegates women to inferior positions. These instances of sexism express the bookâs central idea that not only is it difficult to be a woman, but also that cultural values have influenced a womanâs identity. As such, these values have become embedded into the very fabric of South Korean society. They have come to determine how women are allowed to live. There are so many poignant moments in the novel that it is difficult to only talk about one. Rather, it is necessary to examine the entirety of these moments as a composite whole. Within Jiyoungâs experience, both the mundane and the mediocre stem from the denial of equal opportunity and upward mobility for a woman. Yet they are also reflections of how for the Korean woman, mediocrity becomes normalized. Jiyoung experiences the imposition of gender constructs through both microaggressions and blatant attacks. Her subliminal acts of rebellion against these constructs involve her assuming the role of different women she has known throughout her life, including her mother. She is suspected to have postnatal depression, but it is psychosis that she has been driven to by a patriarchal society. What Cho does superbly well is create an atmosphere of suffocation and frustration. She evokes this all-consuming sense of helplessness within the emptiness of Jiyoungâs life; there is a constant idea that for Jiyoung, there is no way of dismantling the patriarchy other than losing the identity that she has created within it. The disintegration of Kim Jiyoungâs identity becomes a kind of rebellion, and the chronological structure of the book adds to its power. The reader does not just witness Jiyoungâs sadness as a housewife, but the quiet anger throughout her life as a woman. The English translation of Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 is admittedly not without shortcomings. There are parts where the language becomes so stiff that the book is difficult to truly comprehend. At times, the dialogue is awkwardly stilted, one of the issues that comes with translation as a process. But Chang handles Choâs simplicity with skill, rendering the same ideas that were so powerful in the original. With Choâs sensitive and forceful writing, Jiyoung becomes more than the profile of a Korean woman. She becomes universal, an expression of not only the âEverywomanâ of injustices, but the âEverywomanâ of human experience. âWhat do you want from us?â Jiyoung asks. Cho never gives an answer.
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A story of Kim Ji-young, a young woman in her thirty's, discovering both the struggles and the strengths of being a woman. Starring- Jung Yu-mi and Gong Yoo. Directed by Kim Do-young Mar 29, 2023 ⢠3 min read Movie Kim Ji-young, born 1982 1982ë ě ęšě§ěDirector Kim Do-youngWriters Yoo Young-ah and Cho Nam-joo author of the novelCast- Jung Yu-mi, Gong Yoo, Kim Mi-kyung as Mi Sook Ji Young's mother, Gong Min-jeung and Kim Sung-cheol as Kim Eun-young and Kim Ji-seok Ji Young's sister and brother, Lee Bong-ryun and the movie-Kim Ji-young, born 1982 or 1982ë ě ęšě§ě is a 2019 movie adapted from the bestselling novel under the same name written by author Cho Ji-young, born 1982 is a story of Kim Ji-young, an ordinary woman in her 30's, who suddenly shows signs of being inhabited by women around her like her mother, her older sister, her best friend, and also talks about stories of people connected to her.*This review may contain spoilers. If you have already watched the movie, please continue reading. If you havenât watched the movie yet, you can still continue reading or you can come back to the review later.What I loved about the movie-The movie is adapted from the novel and they have presented it beautifully. The movie is fabulously made. It's every woman's story, isn't it? All of ours. My sister suggested that I read this book and I loved it with all my heart. And the movie, I loved it just as much. All the additions in the movie blended seamlessly into the story. The movie does justice to the book. I wouldn't say tribute but the book and the movie are a gift to the women around the are addressed as someone's mother, someone's wife, someone's daughter, etc. We women want to be all that and someone else, someone much more. We want to be ourselves and feel enough. We do not need to be embarrassed, do not need to feel less, and do not need to feel like we owe our lives to anyone we be proud to to be born as Women? Shouldn't others be proud that we were born as a woman too?The world convinces you into thinking that you are not enough, that you need to compromise for someone else's benefit. If I continue to live the way others expect me to, I would feel like I am living in someone else's body, living someone elseâs have a lot of empathy for each other. I watched an advertisement a while ago where two women are seen complementing each other out of the blue. A kid watching this entire scene asks them why they were doing so, and one of the women replies by saying that it's us women who need to uplift each the Characters, the Actors, the Writer and the DirectorThe MVPs of the book are Cho Nam-joo, the author and all the women characters that she poured so much life into. And the MVPs of the movie are director Kim Do-young and all the women characters. Each woman in the movie has so much to tell and so much to teach. Jung Yu-mi as Kim Ji-young and Kim Mi-kyung as Mi-sook are so pure and raw. Movies like this prove how extraordinary these women are as actors and as individuals in general. They are so imperfectly perfect in their portrayals, of the lives and the struggles of all the women out there and they are the best at representing are a few changes in the movie compared to the movie. Gong Yoo's character Dae-hyun is extremely supportive in the movie, in spite of all the inhibitions he holds and all the prejudices he has. Dae-hyun is willing to change himself and his thinking and support his wife and her growth despite the struggles they are going to face together. Gong Yoo is admirable in his portrayal of movie showed a change in the attitude and behaviour of Ji-young's father and brother and it is such a wonderful addition as movie consists of a phenomenal star cast and each and every actor is Kim Do-young- I do not have enough words to express my gratitude to Kim Do-young for creating this beautiful piece of art. It takes a lot of courage to take up a topic as sensitive as Kim Ji-young and put it out into the world. She is representing all the women and the movie is like a gift from a strong, talented, brave and hardworking woman to the women of the world. I am looking forward to more amazing and extraordinary work from director Kim Do-young because the world needs them more than I can all the Women of the world,Thank you for teaching me that Women are amazing human beings. Thank you for teaching me that Women are strong, independent and courageous and when they are supported, uplifted, encouraged and empowered, they are capable of greater you are a book lover please do read the book and also watch the movie. But if movies are your thing, I highly recommend that you watch this astounding creation. REVIEW FOCUS; ABOUT; Search for: Kim Ji Young Born 1982. ร฾วิวภาŕ¸ŕ¸˘ŕ¸ŕ¸ŕ¸Łŕš Kim Ji Young : Born 1982 ŕ¸ŕ¸´ŕ¸Ąŕ¸ŕ¸ľŕ¸˘ŕ¸ŕ¸ ŕšŕ¸ŕ¸´ŕ¸ŕ¸ŕ¸ľ '82 | ŕ¸ŕ¸´ŕ¸ŕ¸Ťŕ¸Łŕ¸ˇŕ¸ŕ¸ŕ¸ľŕšŕšŕ¸ŕ¸´ŕ¸ŕšŕ¸ŕšŕ¸ 'ŕ¸ŕ¸šŕšŕ¸Ťŕ¸ŕ¸´ŕ¸' ? 14/12/2019 - warumanu. by Cho Nam-JoI knew that the Republic of Korea South Korea and India celebrate Independence Day on the 15th of August. What I didnât know was how similar the cultures of these two countries were until I read Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982. This million-copy bestseller, written by Cho Nam-Joo, translated into English by Jamie Chang with audiobook narration by Jamie Parker deserves itâs tremendous success and more. The cover with a sketch of a face framed by black hair but no features laid atop a city skyline, highlights by its absence, the commonplace life of its eponymous protagonist, Kim Jiyoung in urban South Korea. Like the simple cover, it is a simple story, simply told. What makes it special, is the way it draws in readers through its matter of fact telling of a story that plays out in every country that is burdened by patriarchy. Jiyoung, a young woman in Seoul starts showing signs of mental imbalance in the autumn of 2015, a year after the birth of her daughter. At first it seems odd to find an educated, modern young woman falling apart despite a comfortable, happily married family life but as the story unfolds, the reasons become apparent. It isnât always one moment of horrific trauma that makes people crack but the cumulative effects of a lifetime of being at the receiving end of small, thoughtless aggressions, something that girls in Korea and world over routinely face, a series of episodes that can ultimately destroy a personâs well-being. Jiyoung, the quiet, second daughter born in a traditional family where the father goes out to work while her mother stays home, observes and quickly normalises her life in a culture that prefers male children. While she is expected to share everything from a blanket to a treat with her sister, her much-younger brother gets the best portions of food, better clothes, and of course, more attention from their parents and grandmother. âIt didnât occur to the child Jiyoung that her brother was receiving special treatment, and so she wasnât even jealous. Thatâs how it had always been.âAs we follow Jiyoungâs growth through her childhood years 1982-19940, adolescence 1995-200, early adulthood 2001-2011, and marriage 2012-2015, through ordinary episodes of school and workplace bullying, family expectations before and after marriage, we uncover the myriad ways in which a personâs soul can be effaced. The unfolding of the systematic effects of patriarchy is so gradual that it doesnât come across as punitive or intentional. It is revealed for what it is, an insidious state of being . Jiyoungâs father and later, her husband, appear to be mild-mannered men of not much consequence. It is the women who are the complicit perpetrators of patriarchy. Jiyoungâs paternal grandmother, who despite her hard life with four sons and an incompetent husband a man with a fair complexion and soft hands, who never worked a day in his life doesnât resent her him because he didnât sleep around or hit her. Even though three of her four sons turn out to be ungrateful, her heartfelt wish for the only daughter-in-law, Jiyoungâs mother, who takes care of her is âYou should have a son. You must have a son. You must have at least two sons.âJiyoungâs mother is more than just the compliant meek daughter-in-law. She is the backbone of the family, the one with business savvy and foresight who uplifts the familyâs standard of living and enables her daughters but still favors her youngest child, the hardwon growth from a primarily agricultural society to an industrialised one and its impact on society provides the backdrop on which the characters grow and change, thereby enabling the transformation of the country. But they each bear the human cost of their participation in the countryâs progress as it plays out in small and large ways in their own periodic intervals, the novel provides footnotes for reference to relevant statistics on government policies and other measures. These helpful asides are not mere digressions. They add veracity to the story of one fictional protagonist who represents her generation. The introduction in Korea of family planningâ, a government sanctioned measure to limit the expanding population when combined with easy access to ultra-sound technology leads to sex-selective abortions and an alarmingly skewed gender ratio. The short-sightedness of such programmes in cultures that favour male children and the inevitable impact that serves to further exacerbate existing problems were effortlessly portrayed through Jiyoungâs life. Whether itâs her interaction with bullies or perverts or outright chauvinists, Jiyoungâs story hits uncomfortably close to makes the story work is the clinically detached narration. I admired the absence of sentimentality that kept the story moving briskly as well as the simplicity of the prose that stayed true to its purpose of just telling the story. I first heard the audiobook and then read the print version. On both occasions, I found myself getting worked up, my short breaths fanning my anger at the way people make choices to conform to the bias of society, cleanly sidestepping responsibility for all the wrongs that follow. Even as I wrote this review, I had to stop and take deep breaths to continue. What makes the novel real is not just Jiyoungâs struggle to make her way through a world that seems to be systematically wired with landmines to trip her progress, but the fact that at several points, she comes across women who in their own limited way, try to make a difference. Whether it is a young classmate in school who decides to stand up to an unfair system that puts girls at a disadvantage or the stranger on the bus who rescues her on a dark night at a bus stop and tells her âItâs not your faultâ, there are women who work within the system to uplift one woman at a time, through words or actions, however trivial they may favorite character was Jiyoungâs mother, herself a victim of a generation where female siblings willingly worked in their youth to put their brothers through school and later spent their adult life supporting their own family. With her entrepreneurial spirit and courage, she brings financial stability to her home and takes a stand to enable her daughters to have a better life than what she could do for herself. But in the end, she is a victim of her circumstances and her biases, just like the therapist who tries to piece together Jiyoungâs case in the context of his own life. The strength of the story lies both in the telling of it and in itâs conclusion that the ills of society cannot be condoned, even if it is co-opted by the majority. What it does not do is provide a neat solution, either for Jiyoung or for the reader. My opinion With translations into eighteen languages, this book should be made essential reading for girls, boys, and their parents all over the you read this book? Or come across similar books by writers from other countries? ? Drop me a note in comments.